Why is it that when a guy askes a girl out he gets a negative answer, he may get a ‘no’ given to him by several girls, it is time to take a look at one’s self and try and determine what exactly is wrong.

The guy may be painfully shy, and just does not know how to talk to women, which of course is the first step on how to get girls, so what are the stumbling blocks, there are many. First things first, appearance is paramount the guy needs to be well groomed, clean and smelling of something other than sweat, or fragrances from his job, like engine oil, frying oil, and the land.

Don’t approach a girl with dirty finger nails, scruffy hair and cloths, and dirty shoes, this is definitely not the way forward on how to attract a woman, the saying goes ‘manners maketh a man’ and a nice young lady will appreciate a man with manners, she will not tolerate a loud man with a foul mouth, no way, no how.

It is very difficult if you are very shy, but be bold, all you need to do is get in conversation, about hobbies, jobs, interests and pick up signals on how she is responding do not go in like a bull in a china shop, ease your way into asking her out on a date, and if you are gently, kind, and more importantly listen to what SHE is talking about this will go a long way on how to get a girlfriend.

Body language plays a huge part in the boy girl initial contact, if you are fidgeting twisting your fingers purely because you are shy and nervous this is not good, try to keep your hands by your side, try to look relaxed, as if you are used to talking to girls, smile a lot, this will take you forward and propel you into the arena of how to pick up girls.

You will find after a little while of just talking around the circle of friends you will be at ease with how to talk to girls, and the more you do it the more you will enjoy it. It will become second nature to you and after time you will not hesitate when you see someone who catches your eye to home in on her, not in a bad way but a nice gently well-mannered approach.

A spokesman for Social Attraction said “we have a huge amount of guys attending our academy for help to gain confidence”. Gary Goldstein the founder of the Social Attraction Academy explained “we work with the single man on how to change his belief system in this way it makes him attractive on the inside, sometimes men view themselves in a negative way, and we go through with them on how to change that. In the long run it makes them stronger and gives them confidence on how to talk and attractive the opposite gender.

For further information visit: www.socialattraction.co.uk